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"5
Killer Bonus Flirting Tips"
Here
Are 5 Of My Favourite Proven
Flirting Techniques That Weren't Included In My Book & That
You'll Want To Try Out...
Flirting
Tips #1 - Establish A Physical Connection
It's important start communicating through physical contact.
Flirting using physical communication is much more powerful than
flirting through just verbal communication.
The first step, is to touch or grab her hand. I do this by finding
something interesting to focus on and then I grab her hand to get her
attention and I point it out. Another simple way to establish
a physical connection is to take her hand and lead her to a less
crowded area to continue your discussion.
Another great technique is palm reading. It may sound corny but it
works. Start by telling her that you recently had your palm read, and
tell her what you learned - make it humorous. Then reach for her hand
as you tell her you can read hers if she'd like.
After you initiate the initial touch in a way that's not threatening to
her, wait for her to touch you back. If she touches you back or if her
body language is welcoming, you are o.k. to continue. Touch
can be a touchy subject, so be vigilant not to cross any
boundaries and if you do, simply retreat a little. When applied at the
right time, touch can be a welcome and powerful tool for both parties.
Flirting
Tips #2 - Leave on a high - get her laughing
The most important part of a conversation is the same as the most
important part of a speech, and that's the ending. The way you end and
the feeling you impart as you leave is what lasts and makes the final
impression about you.
For example, if you are planning on meeting up, don't end off saying,
"ya we will see you then, bye." You want to end off with her laughing.
So instead, say something like, "yeah just try not to embarrass me." or
"Don't forget to paint your toe nails." or if you're in a social
setting and need to step away, you could say... "I'll be back in a few
minutes...This is where you say you can hardly wait and you'll
be counting the seconds."
Flirting
Tips #3 - Qualify, Qualify, Qualify
Men have a huge problem with this. When we see a woman we want to
puruse, we think selling ourselves is going to make her want us. NO,
that doesn't work. In fact it does the opposite and takes away the
challenge and her desire to pursue you. Basically, we want what we
can't have. So make yourself hard to obtain by qualifying her.
Some ways to qualify is to ask her questions about something she is
wearing or something she did or is doing, and then really listen to her
response, "That's a cool necklace, did you get it traveling?" Another
great flirting tip when qualifying is to turn the tables by taking the
role that women like to take, "So are you going to ask me out or what?"
or "You didn't just tell me you liked hiking to get me to like you, did
you?" Just remember to always give your approval when interacting.
Flirting
Tips #4 - Use Props
This is an easy one that you can prepare in advance and it works really
well for flirting. The idea is to have a prop of some
sort visible as a conversation starter. This will make
women feel much more comfortable approaching and flirting with
you! Conversely, if you approach her, your prop could still come into
play when she notices and comments on it.
For instance, you could have a bandana that hangs out of your pocket or
a hat that stands out or just a shirt that says something funny. Then,
when they ask about the bandana you can say something like, "it was a
ruff time in my life I don't think we are good enough friends to talk
about this yet" then you can go into some funny story or whatever you
want. The most important thing about this flirting tip is that it
breaks the ice and gets the conversation rolling.
Flirting
Tips #5 - Flirting using technology to your benefit
Being successful with women is becoming easier and easier for men. Why?
Because with social networks, chat groups, dating sites and text
messaging being part of everday life.. a lot of the performance anxiety
that comes with the face-to-face flirting with women in social
settings can be done from a distance. The pressure to be as
spontaneously funny, as good looking, etc... is reduced and you can
take a little more time to develop the attraction triggers.
This technique is a gold mine for a lot of men and it can be for you
too!
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